6/26
I have not posted in a few days because
I have been sick and too tired to think about blogging, so I thought
I'd make this post a compilation of the past few days.
DHE work has been going well. Nik and I
visited the Lulu VICOBA and decided we want to work on a pilot
project with them for the summer. When we arrived, the VICOBA members
eagerly showed us the briquette press they had built all on their
own. I was really impressed- it was larger than the one we built and
more than half the cost (the beauty of mzungu prices). They also have
access to coffee husks, a major component we were looking for in our
pilot project location. It doesn't hurt they are the VICOBA closest
to the mountains in a gorgeous and vividly green setting farthest
away from the city!
One day, we locked ourselves out of our
room (not uncommon for our group) and I went downstairs for a spare
key. As I was waiting, a young mzungu woman walked in with a local
chatting away in fluent Swahili with him. She grabbed her key and
noticed me waiting, so she asked if she could give me any help,
correctly assuming I was not fluent in Swahili. After explaining my situation to her, she offered to wait with me until the hotel staff
found a spare key to unlock my door. I soon learned that Lauren was
from Wellesley, grew up in Michigan, and had been spending the past 2
years in Tanzania as a Peace Corp volunteer. She is actually leaving
her village in 2 weeks for the end of her service work. She has been
working on environmental and other aspects of improvement in the
village (about five hours away from Arusha) and has completed tasks
like building a library and water tanks for the community. We chatted and I told her of
my interest in joining the Peace Corp after (fingers crossed) getting my degree at
Dartmouth. She invited me to have a beer with her at the hotel bar
and ask her any questions I had about the Peace Corp. Of course, I
accepted.
It was really great talking to Lauren
about her experiences before and during her stay in Tanzania. Her
friend joined us as we talked, and I soon learned he was a teacher in
the village where Lauren volunteered. When I found out he was
married, I asked about the Tanzanian “dating culture”, sine PDA
is frowned upon here and I don't even see many men and women together
when I am walking around. It turns out Tanzania has no dating
culture, and the traditional courtship includes a bride price instead
of a dowry. A bride price is where the man's family has to pay before
the man can marry a woman, thus many families prefer daughters and
consider themselves wealthy if they have many. With Lauren's friend,
he was best friends with his wife through their schooling, eventually
became secretly romantic for a short time and then married soon
after. There is no word for “boyfriend” in Swahili, only "friends with benefits”
and “engaged/married”. Now in cities, though, dating is getting a
bigger hold in the culture, because of American television. Yes, High
School Musical is as realistic as it gets!